You Can

 Are you genuinely happy? No be honest, are you happy with your current life? If not just don't worry, life is great and it will open its gates of opportunities to you once you are ready to receive, all you have to do is to be open to life, embrace the good and ignore the bad, and lead the best life you could.There are really simple skills you need to learn and there's a small piece of knowledge that is really important to know before you learn the skills, you need to know who is controlling your life, you may think that its god -destiny- and if you believe so, you can't change your destiny. You may as well think the law of attraction is. But what I believe is that our lives are controlled by one thing only which is our subconscious minds, but what controls our subconscious minds? It's our conscious minds. So by definition, we control our subconscious mind which is controlling our lives, so we are in full control of our lives. Now you can cheer up because your current life situation will change the way you want it to. Did you ever wish you had a genie under your control? If a genie appears right now and says he can grant any wish of yours, what would your wishes be? I recommend you write them down on a piece of paper, your wishes are unlimited, so write down as much as you like.  Now have a look at what you've written. Do you think it's possible to make your wishes a reality? Actually the real answer is yes, even if your wishes seem somehow unrealistic, but the fact is, your subconscious mind is the genie, it will obey your commands whether they're negative or positive. So imagine one day you fail at solving a problem, so you start saying stuff like "I'm a failure, I'm so dumb,…" by that way you'd be sending a message to your subconscious mind, that you are a failure, the genie says: "your wish is my command" and soon you'd notice more "dumb" situations.
Now what do you really want?WisdomIntelligenceCreativityGood relationshipsMoneySuccess…
The list is unlimited so add whatever you want to it.But just before you start taking advantage of the genie within, you have to master the skills of talking to your subconscious mind.First of all, you can't communicate with your subconscious mind by words, this language is profound to our creative mind, it only understands in 2 ways:

  The first is by images, or visualization.  The second is by feeling.But whatever way you chose for communication you have to believe, or else your visualization would be merely daydreaming and your wish will stay a wish.What I mean by believing is having faith in your subconscious mind and knowing that your command would become a reality by only commanding the subconscious mind. So for believing you have to get an "I can" attitude, so from now on you have to start believing that you can get whatever you want. 


I quote from the amazing book of Dr. Joseph Murphy "Miracles of The Mind" about how your subconscious mind works:"It is like the soil: it will accept any seed that will deposit in it, whether it is good or bad. Remember: anything that you accept as true and believe in will be accepted by your subconscious mind, and brought into your life as a condition, experience, or event."So now that you know how your life is driven you can take advantage of that knowledge and do a small experiment: Your mind is the genie you were looking for, and your subconscious mind's key is pictures, through pictures and belief you communicate with the most intelligent thing you've got. So now imagine you want to become an artist, but you used to think that you suck at drawing, so why don't you see for yourself what your subconscious mind can do. Go get a white piece of paper, then tell yourself that you are a really good artist and that your drawings are amazing, then just relax your mind and body and don't worry about it not working since it will put skepticism in your mind, you have to truly believe that you can do it and let  your mind draw and not your hands, the moment you realize what your mind can do and how far it can reach if you allow it, you'll start realizing how amazing you are.

So the steps are:
1.      Get a white piece of paper and a pencil.
2.      Tell yourself that you can do it.
3.      Just relax, and believe in yourself.
4.      Let your mind do the drawing and not your hands. Witness a miracle happening.


Actually I have tried it myself, I really used to think I suck when it comes to drawing but I wanted to try this exercise first before telling you about it, and it worked though I started with small things and then went to things more complicated, and I advise you to do the same so that you don't become discouraged if you didn't draw the horse correctly from the first time, because you see, you have programmed your  mind as "not-so-artistic" so many times, that's why to get out of it will take some time it all depends on your amount of belief. But its normal to draw a water bottle or a couch very nicely the first time you try, but what I recommend is to have what you want to draw in front of you, and look at it frequently.
Now if you are good at drawing you might try yourself at something you're bad at, writing for instance or singing or dancing, anything you feel bad at doing. This exercise will help you get out of your belief that your mind can only be good at one thing at a time.You can be whatever you want to be, just know that: YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK YOU ARE.

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